Mastering Success 掌握成功 : What You Most Need To Know When Things Go Wrong.答：你最需要知道什么事情是错误的。
By Trevor Emdon. 由特雷弗Emdon 。

Remember those sales pages that tell you that all the other sales pages didn’t tell you THE secret (to whatever)?请记住这些销售网页，告诉你，所有其他销售网页没有告诉你的秘密（任何） ？

You know the ones I mean - Adwords works if you do THIS;你知道的我的意思是-作品的A dwords如果你这样做; traffic交通 will flood your site if you do THAT … So you try ‘em all - and you still get zip.洪水将您的网站如果你这样做...所以，你尝试了他们的所有-你仍然可以获得邮政编码。

Then you get this problem: in your head you start to wonder, is it them or is it me?然后你这个问题：在你的脑袋你开始怀疑，是他们还是我吗？

Well, hey it must be you, because just check out those testimonials … if THEY can make it work …!那么，嘿必须你，因为只是检查了这些推荐...如果他们能够使它的工作... ！ You getting the picture?您是否获得了图片？

Now you’re really in the soup, because if you believe that you are the cause of your failure, or at least that you didn’t try hard enough, then you have nothing left to fight with, do you?现在，你真的在汤，因为如果你认为你是你事业的失败，或者至少说你没有足够的努力，那么你有没有什么可以打击，你呢？

Look deeper into that soup, my friend, because in the murky bottom of that cauldron lies a diamond so bright that you should never, ever be struck down by “failure fever” ever again!期待更深入的汤，我的朋友，因为在阴暗的底部，这锅是一种如此明亮的钻石，你应该从未被推翻的“不热”再次！

Let me enlighten you as to what it looks like, this brilliant diamond.让我启发你以什么样子，这辉煌的钻石。 The path to enlightenment is just a couple of steps away.该道路的启示就是一对夫妇的几步之遥。 Follow me….跟我来... 。

The key is in seeing that you believe in the other guy, (sales pitch), but not yourself.问题的关键是在看到你相信其他人， （推销） ，但你自己。 All those sales pitches are not untruths.所有这些推销不是谎言。 (Some of them are a bit hyped, for sure, but that’s the name of the game. Hype is still true.) The testimonials are true too. （其中一些是一些宣传，是肯定的，但是这名称的游戏。炒作仍是如此。 ）的推荐是真正的太多。

But that doesn’t make those folks “better” or “more successful” than you - unless you believe it does!但是，这并不使这些人“更好”或“比较成功的”比你-除非你是这样认为的！

If you want a successful business on line or off, there’s one skill above all others you must master.如果你想要一个成功的商业在线或关闭，有一个以上技能的所有其他你必须掌握。 That is the skill of making yourself feel good even when things look bad.这是技巧使自己感觉良好，即使看不好的事情。

Success will come - if you believe at your core that you are a successful person. If you live in doubt, anxiety and have a “What me? 成功与否将是-如果你相信在您的核心，你是一个成功的人。如果你住在怀疑，焦虑和有“什么呢？ Who are you kidding?” attitude then you’re not going to make it.谁是你在开玩笑吧？ “的态度，就不会作出的。 (Sorry to be blunt, but you need to know). （对不起，是生硬，但你必须知道） 。

A person who believes they are successful will look at an undesirable result and ask themselves, “What can I change to make this better?” Or maybe, “What can I do different?”一个人谁认为他们是成功的将审视不可取的结果，问问自己， “我该怎么改变，使这个更好？ ”或者“我能做些什么不同？ ”

But they will never, ever ask “Why is it always me?” Or “How come I have all the bad luck?” They won’t even ask, “What did I do wrong?” because if you come from a place of confidence, (make sure you know the difference between confidence and arrogance too!), you cannot do anything “wrong.” And instinctively, you’ll try something new.但他们将从未问“为什么总是我呢？ ”或“如何来我所有的坏运气？ ”他们甚至不会问： “什么我错了吗？ ” ，因为如果你来自一个地方信心， （确保你知道区别的信心和傲慢呢！ ） ，你不能做任何“错误” 。本能，你会尝试新的东西。

Action 行动 will turn into results, and ultimately success. Inaction, paralysis and fear (that you can’t make it or you’re not good enough), will kill your business - and your spirit. 将变成结果，并最终取得成功。无为，瘫痪和恐惧（你不能使它或你不行） ，将杀死您的企业-和你的精神。

And that would be a tragedy.这将是一场悲剧。

Now go forth and become a master of YOUR success!现在提出，并成为你的主人取得圆满成功！

About the author:作者简介：
Trevor Emdon is a life coach,特雷弗Emdon是生命教练， motivation动机 al writer and workshop leader from the UK He motivates & inspires his clients to fulfill their dreams.基地的作家和车间领导者来自英国，他激励和鼓舞他的客户实现他们的梦想。 “Master Success Secrets” can be downloaded from “大师的成功秘诀”可下载 http://www.mastersuccesssecrets.com http://www.mastersuccesssecrets.com

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